A Good Day

Life is busy.  Life means family, friends, work, responsibility, and, hopefully, some fun along the way.  Everything that touches our lives requires a great deal of time, effort, and more work.  Life is beautiful in many ways but, at times, it can be exhausting as well.  Amid all of that busy life stuff are good days and bad days.  Hopefully, for all of us, there are many more of the former and far less of the latter.  We never wish for bad days but, they can, and do, happen.  The best thing about good days is that we can plan them.

Quite often good days happen of their own accord.  Perhaps the weather is just right for working in your yard or taking a walk, maybe you laugh with your kids and share a moment that makes you smile, or possibly you simply enjoy the beauty of the day.  Good days happen, but many times you can, and should, create your own good day.  In the past many weeks I have been on the run with work constantly.  I love what I do, very dearly, but, months have slipped away quickly while I dashed from job to job.  Sadly, I have had very little time to myself which means I have had very little time for family, friends, and other responsibilities, let alone some fun.  Lack of time also means little energy for practicing my craft or tapping into any personal creativity.  That is not good.  I have burned the candle at both ends and subsequently life becomes a blur.  Photographers can’t have blurry vision!!!

I spent last week in Florida covering a PGA tournament.  The work schedule was incredibly hectic but, I managed a few free hours on Wednesday morning.  A long time friend was working with me and we had not been out together shooting in a few years; we used to go often.  I planned a trip to a swamp for both of us and we spent our time exploring, talking about everything, laughing, and making images of nature.  The time spent reconnected me to a wonderful friend, rejuvenated me for the week, stirred my creative vision,  and motivated me to start the new year on a energized note.  It was a much needed break from what felt like a never ending schedule.   So often, a little can go a long way: much like a kind word, a helping hand, and being nice to each other.  It was a very good day.  For me, being out with my camera puts me in a special place where I see and feel the world to such an extent that it makes “me” better.  My photography is my solice.  We all need to find that niche that soothes our soul and fuels are drive to be the best we can be, always.  Little did I realize that just two days later, December 14th, my beloved New England, and our country, would have its collective hearts broken in the wake of senseless, cruel, and unspeakable violence.  My good day no longer mattered but, for us to all heal, especially those devasted families, we need to somehow move beyond the worst of days and plan for better ones ahead.  Better days start with us, at home, around our kitchen tables talking to each other and to our children.  Better days start with us once again embracing the value of life and instilling those values, and common sense, into our every day living.  Lets plan for better days.  Our children cannot afford for us to accept, live with, or disregard the worst of days.

Do not be greedy.  Do not be selfish.  Do not forsake the needs of others.  However, take time and invest in yourself and your self.  We cannot begin to move forward as a whole until we heal as individuals.  For us to be at our best as a nation, we must first be at our best as individual people.  Take stock of your self and make the changes necessary so our children grow to be better than we are, or ever could be.  Everything in our lives begins, or ends, with us.  Right now, more than ever, we must reflect upon ourselves, our communities, and our society.   Right now, more than ever, we all need the solice of a good day.

Peace to all.

Don Toothaker

“Photograph What You Feel”

 

6 Comments

  1. Great article Don

  2. Stacey Guptill

    this was so touching and so true… your words brought me to tears… very emotionally moving and true.. I can understand & relate to your every word… VERY well written,spoken & felt!

    • thank you Stacy…. I am humbled. I had so much more to say but, at the end of the day, its not about politics… it is about people. and those people are us and all politics and emotion starts in our homes.

  3. Very nice, Don. “collective hearts broken” pretty much sums it up and is beautifully expressed.

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